Friday, August 21, 2009

Page 194

I try not to use my blog to discuss my views on current events, cause heated discussions or rant about subjects that nobody cares about, but I can not let this go by without sharing it with those that I love.

It was an interesting last couple hours of work today. I was browsing through CNN.com and MSN.com's news headlines when I fell upon the Sports Illustrated Top 25 Swimsuit photos. I was curious to see what type of swimsuits made the cut.

The first couple of photos were decent ... for a supermodel, but as I got to picture 3, they became topless (with long hair perfectly placed). By picture 5, a skinny tan supermodel was wearing nothing but an iPod to cover down there and her arms to cover her breasts. Wait a minuet! How can this be a swimsuit? It doesn't stay on and if it gets wet, well ...

It then dawned of me (and I should have realized it since it is Sports Illustrated) that the pictures were not about the best swimsuits. They should have really named the article "Top 25 photos of almost naked womenwho might be wearing swimsuits that don't fit so men can have something pleasing to look at."


http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/vault/gallery/featured/GAL1157160/1/index.htm

Is this how women should be portrayed? Is this how society has grown to think women should look like. It was disgusting. I thought about how many men (and maybe women) purchase SI just for the swimsuit edition because of how skinny and beautiful the women are; but is this true beauty?

Not only are women supposed to be tall, skinny, tan, and a sex symbol ... they are supposed to be always put together. How many times do you look through a magazine as see that the people who are all dolled up get great attention, but if the media sees a celebrity wearing scrubby pants, t-shirt, no make-up and hair in a ponytail, they criticize her.

Even the First Lady can not go on vacation and step out of Air Force One in the August Arizona heat in shorts without raising a media stir; just because she isn't "perfectly pulled together." Come on! With the issues going on around the world, the media has nothing better to talk about then if Mrs. Obama should be showing that much thigh.


As we all know, the media is ridicules and shameful for making us women feel ashamed for our bodies because we don't look like their model. Where has our confidence gone? Where is the confidence in our own beauty that we will teach to our daughters and nieces?

I typically don't look at the celebrity fashon magazine, and when I do, it is for a second while waiting in line at Safeway. But while on MSN, my curiosity was sparked again. The headline showed a woman smiling with the text, "What is wrong with this woman and why is she creating so much controversy."

I figured that even though the picture was of an attrative woman, I couldn't be shocked by what was wrong with her after looking at the SI swimsuits. As the next webpage loaded, I was shocked to see that nothing was wrong with her. In fact, she was and probably will be the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen in a magizine.


The article that went with the picture was discussing how this woman, on page 194, has been raising a controversy because she isn't the typical skinny perfect supermodel found in Glamour magazine. Yeah she is wearing underwear that can't really be seen and her arms are positioned strategically over her chest, but this woman is 20 and considered a 'plus size' model. She let herself be photographed and published in one of the top publications not to be a sex symbol but to show the supermodels are not a true reflection of the everyday women.

The everyday women doesn't have a 6 pack stomach with their hip bones protruding out. The everyday women's thighs might touch, their stomachs hang, their bottoms can be big, and their breast might droop. The everyday woman is more beautiful than any supermodel with an iPod.

This picture (and article with readers comments), has really inspired me today. I can't stop looking at the woman on page 194. She is more beautiful that I could imagine and has really made me feel comfortable with my post-Syrah body.

I URGE all of you to read the article that is in the above hyperlink (under the picture) to hear about how the woman on page 194 might have just created a paradigm shift in how women are portrayed in Glamour magazine ... maybe in the media in general.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Just a Glimps

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the stairMASTER

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Sunday, August 2, 2009

We took Syrah on her first weekend trip to Eastern Washington to visit Tony's Grandparents. Even though the temperatures were 102 in the shade, we still had a lot of fun. Syrah, being an 8 month baby, was into everything and going everywhere. It took 3 adults to keep track of her! She played with anything she could get her hands on ... even if it was dog's food dish. She "conveniently" forgot how to sit in her car seat. While there, Syrah got to play for the first time in a pool. She really enjoyed it. The first time we took her out, it was very sunny. She had a hard time enjoying it because everything was too bright. When we took her out in the evening, she LOVED it. It was like a giant bathtub for her ... filled with people she could watch.

She even got to drive the golf cart ... well ... sort of.

The evenings were beautiful there. I loved how the canyon surround the pool. I also loved how Syrah wore herself out on Friday night and fell asleep.

Pool Party

When it is 100 degrees in Washington State, what can you do to keep cool? Easy, pretend you're and osterage.

Or, use a water gun and squirt your cousins.
Or just simply play in the pool.

Sleepover

While Derek, Emily and the kids were visiting, we had them over for a sleepover! It was a lot of fun. Derek and Emily played the Wii while Annabella, Marcus and I (with a bit of Syrah's help) made cupcakes. I gave the kids (minus Sryah) a goodie bag with a couple of toys. Annabella got things like a hair band, body spray, and a necklace, while Marcus got things like a small football, toy shark, a whoopie cushion. He loved the whoopie cushion. He would have us sit on it and then laugh hysterically. Syrah really enjoyed watching all of this ... and sitting on it.

Syrah has a special drawer at Abuela's and Abuelo's. It is the perfect height for her to open and find all sorts of surprises.

[left to right: Marcu - 4 years, Annabella - 6 years, and Syrah - 8 months]

Mt. Rainier

The last 3 weekends in July were BUSY! Derek (my brother) and his family drove from Texas to visit both sides of their family here in Washington. It was great to hang out with them. Seeing how big Annabella and Marcus are getting just amazes me. Tony, Syrah and I had so much fun playing with them. While they were here, we crammed 2 kids with booster seats, 1 baby with a rear-facing car seat, and 6 adults into a suburban and drove up to Mt. Rainier. It was funny to see 3 adults fit into technically 2 seats. It was funnier to see that the smallest member of the family take up the most space in the vehicle. Syrah enjoyed going on a hike in the mountains. She really liked watching her cousins throw snowballs at Abuelo and getting her picture taken with Mommy and Daddy.

Towards the end of our hike, all Syrah wanted was to play in a plastic container and fill her belly.

H-air-dynamics

Are you tired of blah hair? Do you wish you could have beautiful wind blown hair while inside a building? Well, look no further! Watch Syrah's 'How To' video and you too can have H-air-dynamics!

LadyBUM

This is just one of those things that as a parent you find extremely cute, but others may not. I just couldn't resist. Syrah has taken to sleeping on her knees with her bum high in the air. This is cute to begin with, but add a ladybug ... it rises on the cuteness scale.